Tatian & Miguel’s Dream
Tatian & Miguel’s Dream
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Tatian Colon is organizing this fundraiser.
Hi everyone our name is Tatian and Miguel, we been together 7 years and our journey started 3 years ago . I’m a mother of 3 beautiful young girls from first marriage. After getting divorced I wish to find that perfect one and have one more baby as I always dream of . Miguel has no kids, 3 to four years into our relationship we knew that we were met for each other and to complete our family we wanted a baby. My last baby was on 2010, the whole time I though my tubes where tide, I order my pathology record from hospital and started the process to get my tubes untied as at the moment it was the most economical way . I started my visits with fertility specialist he confirm pathology record stated tubes were tide. Started treatment spent close to $10,000, 3 days before actual surgery I was taking to a pre-surgery to input some type of blue ink like they called to make sure my tubes where flowing and good for surgery . Remember I YouTube procedure and knew exactly what they were looking for. I reminder not seeing anything on the screen and doctor face expression. I immediately started crying and he call another doctor to verify and unfortunately my pathology record was not correct, my tubes were burn completely. It was devastating, I remember leaving the office not knowing how to call Miguel , 5 hrs later I finally gave him the news, we both were heart broken . Our only option was IVf and at the time we couldn’t afford it , but we had some money save for a down payment for a purchase of our first house and we decided instead to proceed with our dream to become parents . After 9ths, spending over $24k , knowing the sex of the embryo , doctor telling me I had no issue I was completely perfect and healthy . It was really emotional treatment , Miguel continue to work as a truck driver on the road to continue paying for expenses , felt like every week they kept asking for more money . Once embryo got transfer I got into my panic and anxiety attacks , I was illuminating after making over 50 pregnancy test within a week and getting a negative result but I kept seeing a positive pregnancy test . It was so heart broken knowing our dream didn’t come true and to know we spend every little penny hoping on this . It was one of the worst time of my life , till this day I have everything we purchase for Sebastian “ as that was the name we have chosen for the baby boy . Took me over 6 months to recover . A year after we attempted to start treatment and a month into treatment w egad to cancel due to family emergency . Our biggest wish is to become parents , every little penny will be truly appreciated and closer for us to try again and become parents .